How to identify outcome-dependence and make sure it doesn’t hinder your progress – understanding what confidence means, having a healthy abundance mentality and playing the “numbers game” in the correct way.
Cultivating confidence while minimising the ego – maintaining a humble attitude and healthy self-esteem that allows you to consistently progress.
The importance of the friends, influences, mentors and “wingmen” in your life – making sure you have the right social network.
For deep-level change and ultimate success in the dating game, you must always have faith in the long-term journey, making a commitment to keep moving forward through the natural ups of downs. This is primarily achieved through positivity and resilience, regarding your ability to maintain a consistently good emotional state, without being negatively affected or […]
When it comes to dating and relationships, there are many factors that contribute towards becoming the “best version of yourself” and attracting the women you desire (or one particular woman that you would like to form a deeper long-term connection with). Most of this comes from “Inner Game”, believing you are worthy and acting in […]
When you’re new to the world of self-improvement and the “dating game”, it can seem confusing and difficult to get started. You want to become a better person and improve your attractive qualities, but don’t know where to find the right information or how to put things into practice. Even for someone who’s been “doing […]
The topic of creating and maintaining interactions applies to many situations, in our personal and professional lives, but (as usual) this article will specifically address meeting women on the relationship side of things. Without a favourable (enough) response to initial communication, it can be difficult to develop a productive communication for any purpose, let alone […]
There’s usually a bigger focus on outer game, referring to one’s actions (the practical “mechanics” of the process), but I believe inner game is frequently overlooked – one’s beliefs and mindsets about themselves and interactions with women. The fundamentals of your identity and world-view will automatically guide your natural behaviours, on many occasions. Fortunately, correcting […]
Throughout my history in the dating game (and being a mentor for others who want to meet and attract women), a sticking point concern that regularly arises is “I don’t know what to say”. Or maybe “I can start a conversation with a woman, but what do I say after the opener to keep it going […]
A lot of people ask whether pick-up and dating success is just a numbers game, and over the years I’ve considered both sides of the argument myself, eventually leading to a realistic and well-measured conclusion that takes into account many complex variables. The question stems from how much it boils down to random chance, compared […]